Monday, August 9, 2010

It's just a general crush question? (: I want YOUR opinion.?

So we've all have crushes!


-What do you tend to do around your crush? (ex. stare, bite lip, smile, etc.)


-How do you flirt with your crush whether it's sexually or subtly? (ex. Texting, brush arm, etc.)


-and what do you look in a girl/ guy for? Like what personality or looks.





Whoever gives me the greatest detail and help will be chosen as the best answer! haha!





Thanks you guys! (:It's just a general crush question? (: I want YOUR opinion.?
1. Look at her when she talks, actually listen, make sure to laugh after stories that she thought were funny. I'm not aware of any body language though.


2. I definitely do the arm brush. I'm just very chivalrous. Don't know how well this works for most girls, but it works for the kind of girl I like.


3. Personality-wise I don't really know what I look for. The most important thing is that they seem to be comfortable around me, because that makes it a lot easier for me to be comfortable with them. As far as looks, I like pretty. Not necessarily hot, but pretty. Dresses somewhat conservatively, someone I'd be proud to be seen with.It's just a general crush question? (: I want YOUR opinion.?
I used to do stupid stuff around my former crushes.





Now I changed my behavior:


-I stay cool, calm, and relaxed.


-I make eye contact and ask a question. If we start talking then I'll move close to her but still give her space.


-I'll flirt - tease her, poke her. But there's girls out there who don't like being touched, so if they show me that, I'll back away or leave. Those kind of girls don't like physical affection, and it turns me off. Even if they flirt back and touch me, I'll ignore them.


-If there's chemistry with talk, and good personality, I'll get her number to continue it later. Can't pass up a fun, easygoing babe.





The personality deals with body language that distinguishes between whether or not she seems interested in me. If she laughs, even at the dumbest joke, gets touchy, and shares good eye contact, and can contribute to communicating, I'll be interested in her.





If she ignores me, talks too much, looks elsewhere, and doesn't know I exist or that I'm standing right infront of her - then I'll pass her up. If she walks away while trying to talk, then I guess that's also bad.





It all deals with actions more than words.





There's a few crushes I had on women who don't have it back with me. I tried them out, and they were distant with my 'interest'. So now I've moved on and don't wish to look back. Even though I see these girls here and there (co-workers), I tend to ignore them. Sucks, but if we're going to be exchanging the 'friend zone' thing (they do come around and ask how I'm doing), I'll put them there permanently to stop screwing around. No time to play games.

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