How would you feel if you had a casual friend who was very pretty, smart and well-liked. And she could get any guy she wants, including your best guy friend who is already incredibly dizzy in love with her but she dangles him around making him think she likes him when, really, she does this with another guy as well. How ould you feel if every single one of your guy friends, whom you have thought to be kindof cute, each asked her out 4 times and got rejected every single time. And lastly, how would you feel that you know your crush likes you for the moment, but as soon as this girl talks to him and flirts with him he could fall in love with her like he did temporarily last term.
Folks, this is my situation and I've tried every possible way to not get annoyed and jealous at her, but it is quite impossible. Please tell me how you would react in this situation.How would you feel?
I'm not a girl but tons of girls hate this and some girls know what they doing. They want to take their friend guy friends so she e sad and not have a man but hey i don't know. The best thing to do is keep your friends from the people you like or you may lose them.How would you feel?
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Since there's nothing you can do to change the situation, your reaction means everything. I would remain confident in myself, and always try my best. Infatuation doesn't last, so after she decides to stop toying with all your friends, maybe they will have realized that. You don't need to lead people on, to satisfy yourself.
i have met girls like your friend she will end up with no one trust me. she is a user. just stand back and watch people will start and get sick of her.
That's because you keep comparing yourself with her! Have confidence in yourself and what you can do, not follow her. Be Yourself and Love Yourself. You'll do fine.
lol dw! i know its pretty hard ey. If he does actually like you and you end up together than all gravy however if he keeps ';falling in love'; with your mate he isn't worth it at all.
If it was my mate and i felt she was disrespecting my other mates I would tell her to her face that it upset me. or you could subtly hint.
If your gonna be annoyed and jealous just tell her, thats what i would do haha, i guess i'm more open with my friends than some. i didn't date til i was outta high school and now i'm happy in love. what will be will be :)
id feel the same way u r feeling.just dont worry abt ur crush and be confident.
Slap her.
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Naw, I'm just kidding.
It's normal to feel jealous of your friend; heck, I'm jealous of one of my friends right now. Anyways, if you really like your friend, jealousy won't be a huge problem. When I get jealous of my friend(s), I think of the qualities that they don't have but that I have. If that doesn't work, I remember that nobody is perfect, so my friend has to have some negative characteristic about her.
About the crush thing. If your friend is truely your friend, she'll back off if you tell her you have a crush on that particular guy. Unless she doesn't have the same feelings towards him, she will back off or try to ';hook you two up.'; But if the guy always has a crush on your friend when she's around, maybe you should rethink about whether you would really like to date him or not.
And about the ';playing around'; thing. Boys will come to their senses and will learn that she doesn't seriously like them. If you are intensly aggravated by the situation, maybe you could talk to her about it and tell her how it's wrong.
And the rejection. One of my guy friends also constantly asks my friend out on a date. She's rejected him every time, but now and again, he'll message her or corner her after class and ask her. Although he's constantly doing this now, he'll probably stop when he realizes he will never have a chance with her.
Oh, and plus, it's not always great to be the ';popular girl'; like your friend. Why? Well, there was this guy named Andy who liked my popular friend since last year. He wanted to date her so much, he would follow her and take pictures. Then, at the end of the year, he gave her a book made out of construction paper. Inside, there were pictures of her with quotes like ';A Perfect Angel'; or ';Your hairstyle was great that day.'; Creepy, eh? You've got to remember, it's not always great to be your friend. I mean, being liked by several people will also have a downside.
Happy for her.
why dont you just see what he likes and follow him to it and talk to him a bit
honestly i would go up and smack her and qask her what the **** shes playing at those type of people really anger me
Be more aggressive with your crush, mentally telling that girl that ';this is my man, move on sister';.
i would feel like happy and glad and try to be like her
Hrm, i'd be pissed and take it up with her simply because I'm a confrontational sort of person.
I get your situation though and yes it is sh!t beyond explainable, im suprised you've put up with it this long, so well done. :)
Wow.. that was me in HS.. I knew I could have who I wanted and I played with every guy I could just to prove it.
It is lack of immaturity on her part and she will pay for it later, trust me!
She gets no respect from men and will take a long time to get it back later.
Here is what you need to think.. any guy who falls for her is shallow and blind and not someone you want to be with.
Find that guy that hates her, dislikes what she does and sees through it, that is a keeper!!
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