Wednesday, August 18, 2010

People, would you mind if I ask for your input concerning this matter?

what would you do if your former crush who used to flirt with you approaches you after his girlfriend broke up with him and tell you about how he's missing his girlfriend, and how he wants her back?








(I know this is not supposed to be posted here, but I just really want to have as many input as much as possible for me to put things into perspective. I have posted this question in the singles and dating, and polls and survey category, but seems like other categories have no participants.)





thanks for your answers!People, would you mind if I ask for your input concerning this matter?
Well if you are friends, be there for him...


Just don't become the ';rebound girl';People, would you mind if I ask for your input concerning this matter?
I would offer to listen, but him approaching you doesn't especially mean he wants to get together with you (if that's what you're asking).





Be a friend and listen / sympathize, but what more do you want? He's in mourning. You'd be a rebound relationship.
He must trust you as a friend, I feel sorry for the poor guy but there is little you can do. The only one who can help is his ';ex'; girlfriend and she is probably with someone else.





Such is life, if you want you can ask him out on a friendly type date just for the sake of being social , but in the end he will have to get over this himself.





You have taken the trouble to write here for his sake and I do not agree she is ';way better than you';. But go on, ask him out for a drink and say it is just a social ocasion as a friend.
He is just using your as a crutch
Be honest. Tell him you're the wrong person to ask. Don't explain. Let him figure it out and you'll be delighted to see the expression.
Talk with him, be a good listener, I guess.


If he's still so much in love with her, I don't think you should try to approach him at all.


Give it at least some time.
You are playing with fire for both your relationships. I would let him know kindly, that he should really be in communication with her for this. There is some reason for the breakup, and in all good relationships there is a lot of communication, besides it is unwise talking intimately with the opposite sex, that is usually how trouble with your current relationship starts.
he clearly thinks she is better than you are.





you can agree, or not (but i think he probably knows what he is talking about).
Go to the mall where there are lots of people and have a long talk with Him.








He should pay for lunch though.
Tell him you might be a bit biased as you like him as well if you want to be honest with him. If not, flirt with him and try to get him.
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