What would you do if you find out the crush of your life, also had a crush on you before!?

i just found out the crush of my life the love of my life who i on and off loved from 4th grade to 9th grade, felt the same way about me. i just never went for it becasue she said we were best friends. but she would say i love you and flirt with me a lot. i jsut didnt wanan ruin the friendship. little did i know she felt the same freakin way for a long time.. dammit stupid me





i found out through a friend that she really really liked me. its been 2 years since i last talked to her. but the thought of this sparks up my interest again. i still always had her on my mind. she hasnt ever had a boyfriend in the time, and right now i am single. i really feel shes my soulmate





how would i go about talkign to her again? i still have her on aim. do u think she would be weirded out or happy to hear from me again? what would you do?What would you do if you find out the crush of your life, also had a crush on you before!?
No she would definitely be happy if you instant messaged her on aim. If she really did feel the same way. Obviously you guys liked each other for a really long time and feelings like that just don't die. Because i know the feeling you're talking about. So definitely i/m her and tell her how you miss her and want to hangout with her again. Don't just jump into the idea of a relationship right away. Catch up with her and talk first, and then the second time ask her out. You don't want to wait too long, it would suck if she got another boyfriend because she thought you weren't going to ever ask her out. Good luck :). What would you do if you find out the crush of your life, also had a crush on you before!?
Sorry, but it's hard to tell that she's your soulmate if you haven't kissed her yet.. or if she doesn't know you have feelings for her. Go for it. You'll regret it if you don't. Chances are her interests will spark up again, too.. Be confident no matter what. Girls are attracted to confidence more than anything else.
lol the crush of ur life? its either love or not. crushes are a lot different from being in love.


but yes talk to her!!! do it! do it do it (= dont worry
Thats just called being lucky :)
This is the sweetest thing ever!





Ok I think you should strike up a conversation with her again. Talk about what you've been doing and maybe bring up some memories from the past that you guys shared as best friends? This may rekindle and thoughts or feelings she's had.





Don't tell her that you know about her liking you otherwise she will know why you started talking to her.





After you've been talking for a while and are more comfortable with each other tell her your thoughts and feeling and see what she says.





I know what you been thinking shes your soulmate - its that gut feeling that you have isn't it.





Go for it, atleast you can say you've tried rather than thinking 'what if'.





All the best!!!