Has your crush ever hurt you in a way?

That's how I'm feeling. Idk. I liked a guy for a long time, and today it just hit me. I didn't realize how much of an *** he was. All this time what was I thinking? He's dumb as a post, he's arrogant, and he was playing games. He would flirt with me one day then be rude to me the next. All his friends are jerks. The worst part of this is .. despite all that, I STILL like him. It really brought down my mood today.





What do you say? Has that ever happened to you?Has your crush ever hurt you in a way?
Yes I am in a similar situation except. He goes days with out texting me sometimes weeks because we are so busy. He isn't rude just really blunt. It's okay that you still like him. Only human nature.Has your crush ever hurt you in a way?
yes, many times.


it's like a cotton candy crush it looks so great but when you get to know them you realize there's not much there.


I would always imagine what i thought he was like and realized i wasn't even close, but sometimes i would still even like them because i liked who i thought they were instead of who they actually are.
Nope. The only person who would be able to really hurt me would be my gf because of my open trust for her.





A crush is just a person compared to a lover.
Yes, within this past week it has happened to me too.


And I also still like him. Why? I have absolutely no idea.
No, that has not happened to me. I really do feel sympathy for you, though. Hopefully it has helped you learn what is good and bad when it comes to boys. That is a very moral lesson that you can take with you for the rest of your life. If you want to hear what happened to me, then please read the paragraph below.





Here is my story:


I went out with this fat, ugly guy for a month. Everybody hated him. Why did I date him? Well, after much observation, I have come to a conclusion that I dated him because I was desperate since all my friends had boyfriends and I felt bad for him. I never loved him, but he was madly in love with me, which made me feel pressured to love him. It was a very uncomfortable situation. Just about two weeks a go, he went on a band retreat with all of his other band members. There was this girl there that I really really don't like and she literally has mental problems. That girl went on the band retreat with my boyfriend. Apparently, there were some dogs that freaked this girl out. My boyfriend was the only one with her at the time (for some odd reason...) and he didn't know what to do to calm her down. So he decided to be impulsive and KISS HER! ON THE LIPS! I was so mad. I broke up with him the day after he'd told me. I hate his guts know, and he hates me for telling the whole school what he did. So overall, never fall for guys that everybody hates. There's a reason why they hate them.