Is your friend really your friend when she is dating someone but flirting with your crush?

okay one of my friends is all over her boyfriend but when he isnt around her she starts flirting WITH MY CRUSH! WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER! then she had the nerve to tell me that she likes him while she is going out with her boyfriend. If only if her boyfriend could see how she acts when he ISNT around...





what should i do to put her in her place?Is your friend really your friend when she is dating someone but flirting with your crush?
Get her to admit it in front of her boyfriend. That will show her.Is your friend really your friend when she is dating someone but flirting with your crush?
Obviously your friend isn't a true friend to you or truly likes her own boyfriend. Tell her she is behaving like a tramp and it's high time she grew up a bit or you'll let her boyfriend what she's up to when he isn't around.
I had a friend like that (no longer). Even though I told her how I felt it didn't matter. so I stopped talking to her.


I'll be honest with you and if that doesn't work then appereantly you don't care because I put effort to tell you how I feel and your not doing your part so I don't need friends like that in my life...


You know they say keep your friends close and your enemies closer...why I don't know but, sometimes it's good to for a advantage...as long as it doesn't affect you.
Find a new crush...
She is not a friend to you or I Imagine anyone else,,You heard the expression,with her or him for a friend you don't need no enemies,well that fits your situation,DUMP her,you can do much better,and if your crush falls for cr-p hes no better,,dump him to,you don't need people like that in your life,your obviously a better person than that and deserve better!!
NO SHE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!If she was, then she should care about your feelings.Ask her who she likes best, her boyfriend, or YOUR crush.This will put her in a situation she cant just breeze and flirt her way out.If she picks your crush, but doesnt tell her boyfriend,do that for her.If she picks her boyfriend,then tell her to stop flirting with your crush.
In the simplist answer: NO. Real friends have boundaries they respect, such as not hitting on each other's crushes. A true friendship is based on respect for these implicit or explicit boundaries and love. She is not respecting you. She also may feel guilty about this; so she confessed to you she likes your crush, but prob to absolve herself of any guilty feelings she may be experiencing. Her boyfriend will find out soon enough, don't worry about that. You should stop be her friend, that is her place, that being, not next to you. Even if she does like your crush, (you can't help who you are attracted to), she knows she is out of bounds for openly flirty with him, especially since she knows this prob is hurting you and given the fact that she has a bf. She is not your true friend.
No, she/he's not your friend. I would quickly get rid off that kinda '; friendship'; as some one that can't even respect someone you like does not deserve your attn.





Ps: Do it quick or your feelings can get really hurt down the line..
No she is not a true friend because she would take in consideration about your feelings and your boyfriend. I think you should stop being friends with her because if yoy dont, then she is going to think it is okay to flirt or even hook up with guys you like. She is only bringing you down and with her bf situation let them figure it out in their own, just ditch that slut.Good Luck.
She's not your friend because she doesn't respect you. I had something similar happen to me once only my girlfriend didn't have her own boyfriend. Needless to say, we were not friends anymore after she invited him to her house w/o her parents home (I was ALOT younger) after he got off work at midnight. And HE was given the riot act for GOING!!!!! I should have let her have him because he was my first ex!!!!! LOL





Tell her that you don't appreciate what you are doing at all and to quit it. If she doesn't try telling her boyfriend to check her out when your fella's around and he's not. The old spy trick works wonders. If that doesn't work, try talking to your ';crush'; and see how he feel about her......Then you will know if it's all worth it.