How can you talk to your crush if your a really EXTREMELY shy person?

Don't say just talk to him cuz that doesn't help.


Well we're starting to hang around each other but we don't talk to each other cuz were so...well.. we flirt with each other over the phone...BUT ANYWAYS its kinda akward being around each other cuz of...ya.. so can ya help??? THXS!!!! =)How can you talk to your crush if your a really EXTREMELY shy person?
same problem hahaha i hope you're not the girl i like right now cuz that would be funny...


anyways, you just have to get in the mindset that you need to let down some barriers. usually being shy means that you feel as though you'll say something stupid, or that you'll ruin a conversation by talking too much. just let the guy know the things you are going through right now (dealing with parents, school, sports, friends... etc) and let him into your world. tell him things you wouldnt normally tell other people. Talk about your past, and why it makes you who you are now (AVOID talking about ex-bf's) and once you really start having deep conversations, the guy will open up more too. he will tell you things in his life, and you guys will end up really bonding well.





as far as in person, it REALLY helps when the girl starts to do the little things to make a guy feel as though he can make a move %26amp; know you'll be ok with it. These include: sitting really close to him on the couch and leaning against him, flirting, laughing at all his jokes even if they suck, and just open each other up. hell, if things get really bad then just tell him on the phone that you really like him and tell him to be more physical with you when you guys hang out (by physical i mean hold hands, not sex haha)





good luck with that, and hopefully i also take my own advice, cuz i have the same situation right now... i think im just hesitant because she has the reputation for being a really ';nice'; girl who has never done things with guys before.. but anyway yea good luckHow can you talk to your crush if your a really EXTREMELY shy person?
Take it slow and do what is comfortable to you and don't worry. Believe in yourself and it will work many wonders.