What do you do when your best friend and your crush flirt with each other?

its killing me... he used to always talk to me but now instead he talks to her since she added him on MSN... she said she's no intersted in him but how could i be so sure.. yet thats not what's bugging me what's bugging me is if he falls for her.. it hurts soo much coz i like him and i don't understand anything :( what am i supposed to do ??? i feel hurt and betrayed.What do you do when your best friend and your crush flirt with each other?
Idk thats a good question same thing is happening to me ... i try to tell myself who cares. but it doesn't work.. i think the reason why i get so mad is because i want her so badly!. but i never told her i think if i tell her she will know.. so maybee u should try the sameWhat do you do when your best friend and your crush flirt with each other?
let your friends know that you like him and them she wat she says sometin like that had once happend to me but i did stop it but i think u should aslo ask that guy if he lyks your friedns and if he doees them move on he doesnt like u

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Hmmmm. Let your friend know that you have a crush on your crush.
Tell him your feelings in an even tone and with a pleasant facial expression when he is calm and relaxed. DONT say 'we need to talk'!!! cause that immediately gets people anxious. Say something like 'I'd like to share something with you in private' or something like that. give him time to respond rather than expecting an immediate reply. Do the same thing with your best friend. The only positive form of communication in tight knit relationships is that which is as open and honest as possible.
Sounds like he does like her more-- and I'm sorry about that :( The only thing you can do now is try to get over him and move on, and if your friend is a good friend she won't ever date him. You can't really stop him from liking her or change his feelings. Eventually you will get over him and even later on you'll wonder why this was such a big deal at one point in time :D So that's the good news.
i hate when that happens. i say u should win him back from your friend. dont let it get to the point where he falls for her and then she admits she likes him... and it only gets worse. you need to out do her and talk to him as much as possible...not in a stalker way, but get it so he falls for you. be yourself and get his attention
My magic 8-ball says ';Dump your boyfriend before he dumps you first for your friend.';
get a new BF or a new BGF
i think u 2 are over ...sorry
you have to tell your friend how you feel about this situation then she will no not to go out with him unless you are over him if she is a proper friend that is what she will do if she doesn't she obviously isn't a Gd friend.
tell her that you like him and to back off
I'd talk to her about it..


%26amp; be like ';I really like him, so please dont flit with him in front of me, it hurts my feelings';


Simple


:)
Oh my god thats whats going on with me too! You should talk to her, if she dosent have feelings for him then im sure she'll back off and leave him for you!
which is more important, a friend, or this guy? guys come and go, but friends last for a life time. if u think ur friend is more important, encourage their relationship. try not to seem like you like him. if he is more important, then get him before ur friend. like a race.
this may be an extremely frustrating answer but you've got to let her know all about the situation; that you feel that he is falling for her- I mean you can talk to her because your her best friend- right?


If she's a good friend she'll react well, if not well then you've got to sort her out proper!
that is wrong for him, You should be hurt. God blessyou, hon.